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2dimensionalrodent 7/1/2018 11:20 PM
This was her first time talking
11:20 PM
Like a week lol
11:21 PM
give it time, she'll speak again when she's ready
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2dimensionalrodent 7/1/2018 11:21 PM
Oh okay
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I would not be concerned.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/1/2018 11:21 PM
K
11:21 PM
Im so happy though! That was unexpected
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It can be hard for young tulpas to be active for long periods of time esspically if their doing something their not used to yet like talking for the first time give her some time she might just be tired
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2dimensionalrodent 7/1/2018 11:41 PM
Will do. Im riding down from the high of it working anyways so theres no way i could concentrate and hear it again anytime soon lol
11:41 PM
Her*
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You said "it working," what were you trying @2dimensionalrodent ?
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 1:10 AM
Coaxing my tulpa to talk and me being able to hear it
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Ah. Can you detail this process? I'd like to know what others are doing exactly.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 1:30 AM
I went into a state of "mindfullness" which is a practice in meditation. I asked some simple questions. Got a few answers. It wasnt too difficult. Look up mindfullness in meditation. Hope it works!
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DeVout ΘΔ 7/2/2018 2:12 AM
What is "mindfulness" ?
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@2dimensionalrodent Keep in mind that 'speaking' at first is very... non-independent, typically.
2:13 AM
There is no need to rush through 'making a tulpa'. If your goal is successfully making a tulpa, then speed shouldn't be anywhere near a priority.
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AmeLumineux 7/2/2018 3:43 AM
Any ideas on how I might be able to disconnect from the body’s sense when we switch? I’m able to move to the back so my movements affect a proxy body in the wonderland and have no affect on the real body but I can’t detach myself from the body’s senses making it really hard to see the wonderland when she opens the body’s eyes
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There isn't a need to.
3:48 AM
At the very least, there isn't a need to in order to successfully switch.
3:50 AM
if you want to imagine the wonderland, you certainly can - however, you will still have the body's senses. Perhaps she could stop paying attention to you and act on her own, letting you be inactive. That way you can pretend to have had wonderland adventures after you become active again, the way many people and tulpas do.
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AmeLumineux 7/2/2018 3:55 AM
I found it kinda weird when I accidentally walked backwards into a table I couldn’t see cause the body’s sight was blocking out everything in the wonderland
3:56 AM
But yeah I suppose I get that
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wait, dissociation isn't required?
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Dissociation is part of switching, yes.
3:58 AM
But not blocking out the body's senses. (edited)
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I'm not entirely sure I understand the difference
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AmeLumineux 7/2/2018 3:59 AM
The dissociation I felt was more like I wasn’t in the body as a whole but only the head but I could still feel the body’s senses when she looked around or touched something
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Blocking out the body's senses is not sensing what the body is at all. Dissociation is no longer associating with the body's senses - as in, you can receive that input but it is simultaneously "not yours".
4:00 AM
I believe that puts it the best I can in words.
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AmeLumineux 7/2/2018 4:01 AM
Yeah it’s kinda like feeling what the body touches or sees or whatever but feeling like you’re not the one looking around or touching stuff and it feels like it’s almost second hand stimulus
4:02 AM
Like seeing what someone else is describing but it’s more vivid also no one is actually describing it
4:02 AM
But it feels like you’re seeing it without feeling like you’ve really seen it
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 5:42 AM
@SkyeNet what do you mean by non independent?
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Ah. Initial responses are typically highly contingent on the host thinking about the tulpa and essentially... 'expecting a response' to some extent.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 5:45 AM
Yeah... i know that. I was just happy to finally hear something
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Indeed.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 5:46 AM
Anyway to move away from that?
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 5:47 AM
Have them be more independent on responses
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Oh. Not really. I would merely recommend keeping some skepticism in mind.
5:48 AM
And, naturally, work on development via a variety of different experiences.
5:48 AM
The more experience, the more development, generally the more independence.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 5:48 AM
Alright :D
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Repeatedly reinforcing them will also help, so that the brain can establish them.
5:49 AM
It simply takes time for the brain to established altered behavior.
5:49 AM
At least, as more than a conscious effort on your part.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 5:49 AM
Makes sense
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Indeed. If you've looked into how people learn or establish habits, you should certainly know about those principles.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 5:50 AM
I do. I just want to know everything i can
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Excellent.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/2/2018 5:52 AM
Thanks
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For those of you who intentionally made tulpas after discovering tulpamancy, what was your first impression of the community?
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Lyra/ some people were helpful, while others were entirely misleading and spread beliefs that were very detrimental to my system
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what misleading beliefs did they spread?
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Many people seemed a bit unhelp.
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That it's possible to accidentally create a ton of tulpas, and that it's okay to have more than just a few tulpas
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No one really wanted to talk with me on the IRC. u.u
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That tulpas stay active in wonderland and can even go missing or get hurt in the wonderland
8:03 PM
Among other various bizarre stuff
8:03 PM
One of our friends had the most insane progress report ever
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And another had about 20 or so "accidental" tulpas
8:04 PM
She was a really bad influence on us
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Quantity over quality eh.
8:04 PM
Always works out.
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She recently killed off about half of them, yet continues to make more
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seems quite counterproductive
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Sounds clever.
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We don't talk to this person anymore
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I mean that's just either legit crazy or attention whorey.
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Every week she had a new tulpa with some bizarre backstory about how they lived in the wonderland for years prior to being found
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The latter then eh.
8:07 PM
Shit like that makes me wanna strangle someone. Tup shit has a bad enough rep without people pulling shit like that.
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It seems the nature of the practice will inevitably attract some who are prone to behaving in such a way.
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not sure it has anything to do with the practice in particular, people like that wind up no matter where you go
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I kind of feel like there might be a link of some form between behavior like that and borderline personality disorder
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There is definitely a selection bias towards more mental illness/dysfunction when it comes to a community whose premise involves the generation of an alternate personality (as the least of the claims: this is where it starts here)
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Not being versed in the norms of tulpamancy, they could just see that as ongoing imagination exploration of characters they make. Being versed in tulpamancy, and making any deal whatsoever out of "killing" them instead of just never thinking of them again, means they've probably got some issues with invasive thoughts as we call them, but when fully accepted with no resistance manifest moreso as, well, senseless actions like that.
1:21 AM
The sort of drama younger systems/hosts tend to subconsciously create, ourselves once included. (edited)
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2dimensionalrodent 7/3/2018 2:32 AM
Does hypnosis help tulpas and if so are there any good recordings?
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Not sure, Rachel. Haven’t tried any myself.
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2dimensionalrodent 7/3/2018 2:48 AM
K thanks
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What do you guys know about headmates and sleep? We know that in true plurals, if whether the body’s engaged or not, one or more systemmates can be active, though the body can not be engaged while nobody’s conscious. How different would it be for medians or many tulpas who are dependent on their hosts?
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I have some doubts that even someone who is "true" plural that they can have tulpa that are active while they sleep, beyond something like lucid dreaming
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no matter what kind of system it is, the body will need sleep and during (at least some stages of) that sleep absolutely no one in the system will be conscious
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2dimensionalrodent 7/3/2018 2:54 AM
What is true plural. I know what plural means in this context but not that
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sleep is strange beyond a certain level
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It could range from having DID based in trauma to being someone who is just really good at tulpamancy
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we tend to have issues delegating who can sleep in the body, who sleeps while it is awake, etc
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2dimensionalrodent 7/3/2018 2:55 AM
Oh okay
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of course some of us do not sleep, so when the body does it is rather boring?
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2dimensionalrodent 7/3/2018 2:59 AM
I thought whenever you sleep it is your entire brain that is affected
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Indeed.
3:00 AM
That would be consistent with current understanding of how the brain functions - though there are certainly anecdotes to the contrary, I don't believe there has actually been demonstration of such anecdotes being literally accurate.
3:00 AM
What is far more likely is another known phenomenon - generation of 'memories' based on expectation rather than what actually happened.
3:01 AM
I strongly suspect that this is the explanation for people's similar anecdotes of a tulpa and/or host remaining active and having 'wonderland adventures' while they are out of mind of the fronting consciousness.
3:02 AM
In other words, while the host/tulpa fronting is not thinking about or paying any attention whatsoever to the other host/tulpa in question, that other host/tulpa may claim to be active in the 'wonderland', but such activity is more likely false memories generated after they come back, based on expectation that they will be active in the 'wonderland'.
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There have been demonstrations of meditative practices as well as lucid dreaming studies that show that although sleep is a process that affects the entirety of the body and brain including consciousness, awareness itself can be maintained through all sleep stages.
3:04 AM
Not everything is the brain's compensation for contradictory information allowing for filling in blanks through predictive memory .-.
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